01 Mar I Was Done With Being His Plan B!
I WAS DONE WITH BEING HIS PLAN B!
Now that was a tough pill to swallow, but I was realising over time that I was just a “backup option” for him.
That realisation hit me like a ton of bricks and it also opened my eyes to the fact that I deserved better.
I realised that settling for being someone’s Plan B was not an option and I ought to be their top priority.
I wanted to be with someone who would fully commit to me.
Someone who would choose me and only me.
HAVE YOU EVER FELT LIKE YOU WERE JUST A “BACKUP OPTION” FOR SOMEONE?
So many of us have been there.
I knew it had to stop as it was causing me too much hurt, frustration, anxiety and upset.
I was starting to question if I were lovable and doubt my qualities.
Wow, I couldn’t keep on like this!
So I did the following:
1. Love Vision: I took the time to reflect on what I wanted in a relationship and what my ideal partnership would look and feel like.
His pattern of behaviour wasn’t aligned with that love vision and my true heart desires.
2. Communication: I had an open and honest conversation with him about my feelings and why I could no longer continue with our connection.
Breaking free wasn’t easy, but was a necessary step for my happiness, peace and to attract and receive the love that I truly desired.
If you’re experiencing the same, remember, if you’re not someone’s first choice… please stop settling for less. There is so much more and better for you 🌷
P.S. Imagine finally breaking free from that feeling of being trapped and taking back control of your love life. It’s possible.
You deserve to be loved and appreciated for who you are, by someone who will authentically show up for you.
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Teresha, The Confidence Restyler™
Relationship Master Coach Xx