01 Aug How To Avoid “Mr Wrong” And Attract “Mr Right”
How To Avoid “Mr Wrong” And Attract “Mr Right”
“I WANT A MAN WHO MAKES ME DREAM!”
This is a conversation I was having with a coaching client recently – a reasonable desire, I’d say.
But here’s the deal, my coaching client is extremely successful in her finance career, but like so many women, has ended up settling for less “success” in a relationship and what they truly desire in love.
Sometimes they believe that’s all they can attain and end up being in a relationship with someone who doesn’t make them dream. Somebody lacking goals, dreams, and desires. A person who lacks vision, ambition, and drive.
And many times, it’s because of co-dependency, the fear of loneliness or an insecure attachment style. She believes that she NEEDS someone to make her feel whole and happy or to complete her life.
Or simply it can be an ego / status thing, as she wants to “show up” with being with someone, to prove she’s attainable or a “good catch” and she perceives it gives her credibility, social validation, and approval.
And all of the above and so many other reasons, simply reflect that there’s some deep inner work to explore, to understand why she believes this and feels this way. Why she feels undeserving or worthy of having the most rewarding relationship possible. Why she has settled for or is prepared to settle for crumbs when she can have the whole cake!
Maybe “she” is you?
Because deep down, you know you desire a person who sets your soul on fire. That when you wake up every morning, whether physically with your person or not, you just know that this is love at its finest.
I get you and this is what I help my coaching clients to see and embody.
What does dream mean to you?
And how does/would that person further inspire you to achieve your dreams too?
And before you scream at me “yeah but…”
Let me invite you to imagine that if you want someone that makes you dream, you can attract that, once you’re in congruence with your authentic self.
“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”
Don’t limit yourself. You’re way more powerful than that.
No more kissing frogs!
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I’d really love to hear your thoughts on this article. Firstly, what does dream mean to you? Secondly, do you believe you can have your dream? Simply click ‘like’ and please let me know in the comments box below.
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Teresha, The Confidence Restyler™ Xx